learn


We don’t need to go out of our way to learn about life. We have people around us, and seeing and learning makes us better. We don’t have to go out or pay for some classes. These people around us motivate us and make us strive for the best. Every single minute we are learning.

The journey of life is small. It does not matter who becomes our guide. Our society has wasted enough dividing society by caste, age, or race. These divisions are a result of limited thinking. We have to grow up, accept to learn from everyone.

Insecurity

Has human insecurity resulted in consumerism? We want to look good, so we paint ourselves. But who defines: good or ugly? The fairness and whitening lotions. The anti-aging cream or artificial hair treatment. Is it, not an industry running on insecurity?

In the end, what matters is who you are inside. This look, Instagram followers, everything will fade with time. Why can we not be ourselves as we are? Our mental well-being should be the priority, not what others think about us.

lucky

Are we not lucky to have all body parts functioning?
Are we not blessed to have all our loved ones around?
Are we not lucky that we don’t have to bother about daily bread?
Are we not lucky to be a few with skills in reading and writing?

Our life is joyful with an abundance of simple things in life. It is who we run like headless chickens changing the goalpost of our wants.

Our needs are simple, and a few lucky ones have it. But most of us get into trouble with running after unlimited wants.

leader

A leader’s job requires them to lead from the front.
They are the first line of defense.
A leader is a walking culture for their organization.
Unfortunately, with an excess of capital in the market, these rules have been forgotten. Nowadays, leaders hire culture inspectors. So the DNA of an organization gets transitioned from a leader to an employee.

I have no clue if and how it has worked for organizations. The team expects a leader to guide, not someone else. Adversity and success both come through in the journey. It is not for some hired employees to navigate through this but for the leader.

waqt

Kho jate hai hum khud me itne ki har waqt har lamha gujar zata hai Chand Minto mae. Hum phir waqt ko yaad karne lag zate hai. Wo bhule bichre palo ko jab hum masoom the, Jab duniya ki koi fikr nai the hame, Jab dunya hamare ab is waqt me the.

Hum itne mashgool ho ga hai ab is zamane me ki apne ko bhul Gaye hai. Bhage ja rahe hai kuch pane ke chaah liye. Waqt waqt me waqt ke hue za rahe hai be waqt.

Kya the hum bachpan me, kya the hamare zarurate. Kaise hamne sabkuch inte zaldi ruswa kar diya. Kya phir hum us bachpaan me Jake un dino me ze sakte hai kya bhala. Kya hum khud me phir se kho za sakte hai kya Bina kise ka parwah kiye.

responsible

Who is responsible for your life decisions, emotions, and well-being? Is it, not you? Then why do we get angry over the actions of others? Why do we end up becoming someone else’s punching bag? Is it because we lean into all this?

Are we going to bring change in this world when we are living life without owning it ourselves?

Every action of ours, our thoughts, and decisions: personal and professional, we own it. This is the only way we can survive in this world.

rules

Rules are societal sticks to make us all live like a herd. We are told what to do or not. What to wear, who to marry, and what not. It’s like we are born, and then our life and decisions are dictated by others.

We are a generation taught how to live risk-averse. The template of life is set : birth -> study -> job -> marriage -> loan(car, home) -> copulate -> die

What is the thrill of such a life when your inner self is locked? You are dancing to the tunes of others. How is it different than living in a prison?

Most innovation and societal changes happened when a few decided to go against the odds.

In short: breaking the rules. Now it is on you to decide what you are living for society/slavery/self.

force

Can you force someone into an agreement with you? Is this sustainable? How long will it last? Can you keep an employee dangling over salary or make a relationship work under a false premise?

We are all humans, and we have our little soul. We think, most importantly lose our sleep over this in time.

In the last few months, I have witnessed a few relationships breaking because one side had enough of the other. There was no more love, trust, or belief left.

Engineers from various startups quit in a bunch while founders trying to stop them in the name of increasing equity. Most of these employees have lost trust in their founders, and anything forceful is not working.

We all have our breaking point. Treat relationships well and dare not be an asshole.

control

Are you in your control: your thoughts and actions? Are you aware of your shortcomings? What builds you in this life journey is: how much of life you own. It is easy to get distracted, flow in emotions, and get tormented. There could be many externalities contributing to it.

The world and society we are living in punish us for taking a different journey. It labels us as a misfit. The air of ignorance and scare prevails throughout our life. We will find more people around telling us what we should not do than letting us take the journey.

It depends on you as an individual defining yourself. It is about knowing whether you are in your control or the world around you is controlling you.