{"id":2471,"date":"2017-08-31T21:46:43","date_gmt":"2017-08-31T16:16:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/?p=2471"},"modified":"2017-09-02T16:57:50","modified_gmt":"2017-09-02T11:27:50","slug":"on-being-a-connector","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2017\/08\/31\/on-being-a-connector\/","title":{"rendered":"On being a connector"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I have always liked meeting people, talking to them. This seems to be one of the main reason why I enjoy being a connector. At number of occasions i have been asked few questions, I have added them with my thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2472\" src=\"http:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/IMG_0946.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/IMG_0946.jpg 800w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/IMG_0946-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/IMG_0946-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/IMG_0946-260x195.jpg 260w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>1. Is connector a job title?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I would say no, It is not. You don&#8217;t need a work title to be a connector. The most important characteristics of a connector is to connect. The connection can be in many forte from connecting a talented candidate to great organization to helping someone looking for expert advice while he is in process of his PHD thesis.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>2. Do I get paid for connecting people?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Yes, I do get paid. I get paid as karma, coffee and opportunity to walk to the life of many interesting folks. My currency is getting to know and get connected to many more people. I consider it as a chain reaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>3. Can anyone be a connector?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Yes, we are social being. Society separates us from other animals on this planet. So all you have to do is to help those who needs it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>4. How do I connect people?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Mostly via e-mails. On an average I fire one-two email everyday introducing one friend to another. I exit the conversation after that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>5. Can I use social media for being connector?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Yes, absolutely. I understand for many social media is a place 4 venting anger &amp; for others selling brands. At same time, social media has great set of people who are always open to help. So you need to be humble, empathetic and honest for all the love &amp; connections.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>6. Did I ever ended up getting screwed for making connections?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">It has happened sometimes <strong>yes<\/strong> :<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><em>I connected someone desperately looking for job, in month time he left the job and switched for higher payment.<\/em><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><em>Recommended someone as consultant in an organization &amp; he ended up bitching about me to make himself &amp; his work look good.<\/em><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><strong>7. What has been the learning from this journey?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Do not push\/force or be opinionated, just connect and walk away. If you will give advice or stress, you might end up being the bad guy in the process.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">If you are a connector, please share your tips. It will help me in getting better.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have always liked meeting people, talking to them. This seems to be one of the main reason why I enjoy being a connector. At number of occasions i have been asked few questions, I have added them with my thoughts. 1. Is connector a job title? I would say no, It is not. 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