{"id":2874,"date":"2018-06-01T08:25:13","date_gmt":"2018-06-01T02:55:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/?p=2874"},"modified":"2018-05-31T15:30:39","modified_gmt":"2018-05-31T10:00:39","slug":"on-my-own","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/01\/on-my-own\/","title":{"rendered":"On my own"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2875\" src=\"http:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/ng_1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/ng_1.jpg 700w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/ng_1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/ng_1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/ng_1-260x260.jpg 260w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1st June 2017 was when I was free from my last full time job. It also means since then (aka over a year) I have been on my own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking back at these 360+ odd days, I have realized that I have done good for myself. I feel I have become more calm, healthy and confident.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of my time in the last one year has been spent on reading, learning new things like doodling, coding and rebuilding \u00a0my mental and physical strength. I have also been occasionally writing my &#8220;Random Thoughts&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have also spent a good amount of money on coffee, not that I\u2019m complaining about it. \u00a0I also happened to meet some extremely talented folks and made some great friends, who are always inspiring me to do better. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the reading front, I mostly focussed on learning more about guts (our microbiome), human brain, running, keto, intermittent fasting, on writing, philosophy (mostly Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, Osho and Jiddu Krishnamurti) and product development.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I felt scared and lonely at times. One constant question was : \u201cWTF am I doing?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can happily say that I will not \u00a0die of hunger, will survive. I have some great friends and mentors who are helping and will always be my side on this journey of life exploration.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have been working on some startup ideas and trying to explore some more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This constant fight with self and struggle to understand \u201cWho am I? \u201d seems to have made me gritty and system driven.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I would like to share 10 learnings from these 360+ days of my life:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life is too short, living in the present matters the most. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spending time with like minded people is the key to happiness.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical and mental health is our only asset and it will define our wealth.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What you eat, what you read, whom you spend time with and what you listen to will define you as a person. So choose wisely.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Real evaluation is in your daily virtues and \u00a0life principles. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Money is important but not everything, don\u2019t fall for consumerism. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your focus and consciousness will make or break you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be an asshole, one less on the planet will do good (even in a small sample size).<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learning comes by doing: gurus, books, degrees are worth nothing if you are not implementing it on yourself. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life is like a train journey. At every stop we meet new folks and learn new things and then we move on for our new quest<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1st June 2017 was when I was free from my last full time job. It also means since then (aka over a year) I have been on my own. Looking back at these 360+ odd days, I have realized that I have done good for myself. I feel I have become more calm, healthy and &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/01\/on-my-own\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;On my own&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[100,3],"tags":[43,406,268],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2874"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2874"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2874\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2876,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2874\/revisions\/2876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2874"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2874"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2874"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}