{"id":5569,"date":"2021-06-12T19:27:43","date_gmt":"2021-06-12T13:57:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/?p=5569"},"modified":"2021-06-12T19:27:43","modified_gmt":"2021-06-12T13:57:43","slug":"want-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2021\/06\/12\/want-4\/","title":{"rendered":"want"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>You can take the thirsty to a pond. When someone craving mineral water, how are you helping? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are all aspirational humans. We want the best in our life. Be it with a job, our life, or a relationship. It has to be top-notch; we don&#8217;t settle for mediocre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a friend, don&#8217;t offer unwanted shoulders or advice. Sometimes we can help our friends by doing nothing. Let them get lost, figuring out things or two. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This thinking has come after a friend of mine got a job. He had to wait for 6-7 months, but he is happy. All our shoulders, help, referrals were of no use. Cos he had other plans. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In short, you cannot influence the want of others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You can take the thirsty to a pond. When someone craving mineral water, how are you helping? We are all aspirational humans. We want the best in our life. Be it with a job, our life, or a relationship. It has to be top-notch; we don&#8217;t settle for mediocre. As a friend, don&#8217;t offer unwanted &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2021\/06\/12\/want-4\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;want&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[682],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5569"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5569"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5569\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5570,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5569\/revisions\/5570"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}