{"id":6510,"date":"2022-10-02T07:34:22","date_gmt":"2022-10-02T02:04:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/?p=6510"},"modified":"2022-10-02T07:34:22","modified_gmt":"2022-10-02T02:04:22","slug":"mirror-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2022\/10\/02\/mirror-2\/","title":{"rendered":"mirror"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of our mind&#8217;s negative manifest is mirroring.<br>We expect things to be as they were in a job, relationship, or life.<br>The reason is our laziness and comfort.<br>It adds a barrier to our life and affects our progress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We start comparing our new companion with the old one.<br>We start comparing the previous job perk with the new one.<br>Our old habits and expectations get shocked if new work or relationship is different from the past.<br>We get frustrated and in tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As long as we continue mirroring the past in the present, we will make life miserable for newer folks, ourselves, and the newer management at work. In short, we won&#8217;t be satisfied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can we start our life with a fresh slate?<br>Can we join the new workforce expecting it to be day one?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of our mind&#8217;s negative manifest is mirroring.We expect things to be as they were in a job, relationship, or life.The reason is our laziness and comfort.It adds a barrier to our life and affects our progress. We start comparing our new companion with the old one.We start comparing the previous job perk with the &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2022\/10\/02\/mirror-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;mirror&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[100,3],"tags":[806],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6510"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6510"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6510\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6511,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6510\/revisions\/6511"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6510"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6510"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6510"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}