{"id":801,"date":"2014-07-01T06:57:34","date_gmt":"2014-07-01T01:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/?p=801"},"modified":"2014-07-01T07:05:50","modified_gmt":"2014-07-01T01:35:50","slug":"how-not-to-be-an-asshole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/01\/how-not-to-be-an-asshole\/","title":{"rendered":"How not to be an ASSHOLE."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am writing this out of my previous experience\u00a0&amp; yes, that makes me asshole at some point of time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-802\" src=\"http:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/asshole-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"asshole\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/asshole-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/asshole-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/asshole.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Stop giving free advice<\/em><\/strong><span id=\"436ff949-3db4-461a-9bb5-ecf2f9630db9\" class=\"GINGER_SOFTWARE_mark\"><span id=\"6ceb6241-cd7e-4e26-a4d4-890573cc98a3\" class=\"GINGER_SOFTWARE_mark\"> :<\/span><\/span> No one gives a fuck to your advice if you&#8217;re giving it for free.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>No help unless someone asking for it<\/strong><span id=\"ba182288-4609-439a-a10b-967d8bb8ac43\" class=\"GINGER_SOFTWARE_mark\"><span id=\"e732cc01-3e58-4423-a910-bc4515865355\" class=\"GINGER_SOFTWARE_mark\"> :<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/em>If you offer help without someone asking for it, you&#8217;re not helping him\/her instead making an ass of yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>You don&#8217;t have to be good for everyone<\/em><\/strong>: It&#8217;s good to be bad at times, just make sure your actions are not hurting someone else &amp; you have your ass covered.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Stop chasing<\/em><\/strong><span id=\"e23c41e4-ff13-42f3-b436-9fa1fb49a5e0\" class=\"GINGER_SOFTWARE_mark\"><span id=\"dad96b2c-6b73-4e06-b095-6f73dcf115f0\" class=\"GINGER_SOFTWARE_mark\"> :<\/span><\/span>\u00a0You don&#8217;t have to make someone else&#8217;s life miserable because you need help from him\/her. Someone has to respond to you it will happen if it has to running after it every fucking day will not help.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Stop taking free favors<\/em><\/strong>: Pay for the service &amp; someone else&#8217;s time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am writing this out of my previous experience\u00a0&amp; yes, that makes me asshole at some point of time. &nbsp; &nbsp; Stop giving free advice : No one gives a fuck to your advice if you&#8217;re giving it for free. No help unless someone asking for it :\u00a0If you offer help without someone asking for &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/01\/how-not-to-be-an-asshole\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;How not to be an ASSHOLE.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[100,3],"tags":[43],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/801"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=801"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/801\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":805,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/801\/revisions\/805"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=801"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=801"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=801"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}