{"id":8225,"date":"2026-04-16T12:14:02","date_gmt":"2026-04-16T06:44:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/?p=8225"},"modified":"2026-04-16T12:14:02","modified_gmt":"2026-04-16T06:44:02","slug":"makeover","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2026\/04\/16\/makeover\/","title":{"rendered":"makeover"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We are carrying a mask: an artificial version of ourselves, pretending to act as others expect. We play roles in different settings: with peers, parents, and partners. In short, we have built a unique mental model of stimulus and response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone appears to be doing great: on social media, in their professional lives among friends, and in their love lives. It\u2019s as if everyone is carrying a personal scorecard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The sad part of this fakeness is that, over time, people begin to mirror each other. In the short run, it may open doors and provide a false sense of ego. In the long run, it becomes your alter ego: you forget how to live as yourself and instead become a full-time actor wearing a mask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The world is constantly pushing everyone to become a robot with a cosmetic makeover.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are carrying a mask: an artificial version of ourselves, pretending to act as others expect. We play roles in different settings: with peers, parents, and partners. In short, we have built a unique mental model of stimulus and response. Everyone appears to be doing great: on social media, in their professional lives among friends, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/2026\/04\/16\/makeover\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;makeover&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[100,3],"tags":[1743],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8225"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8225"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8225\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8226,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8225\/revisions\/8226"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8225"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8225"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atuljha.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8225"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}