There are testing times in our lives and, solutions come down to staying sane and holding together the originality.
Will it be good or virtuous to become someone you are not because a doctrine, pact, or relationship requires you to be? How can you give the best of yourself after the transformation?
It is easy to follow or chase purpose, life, money, or partner by staying sane. Not by becoming who you are not, keeping originality intact.
Then there will be a few who will come chasing and telling you to understand the situation or be flexible or keep a growth mindset. All on account of having you act as who you are not. It will be fruitful in the short term but, long-term consequences will erode you.