We are a beast. Our ego drives everything. We like, dislike, and act on our ego. In most instances, we dislike being told to do anything. Have you seen a child? Tell them not to touch something; they will go after it.
Our brain is accustomed to not taking orders or advice. As a child attains adulthood, they want to revolt against their parents. Any advice they give is taken in a negative sense.
Let people make mistakes and learn from it. Don’t tell them what to do.