People talk about change without realizing that it has to come from within. This is the problem of our generation “constantly seeking change”. The FOMO era has driven everyone into YOLO. People leave loved ones, cities, and jobs simply because they crave change.
We see others only through limited frames aka their social media feeds. The joy of watching loved ones grow old, seeing cities evolve, or staying connected with the same circle of friends has become “uncool.”
We are sold dreams. We chase change without an ounce of self-reflection, forgetting that real change comes from within, not from money, social status, or new places.
With age, the pain and longing hit us. We begin to realize how many changes we embraced because of others, not because of ourselves.