We put labels of good or bad on everyone around us. In reality, we are all different, and due to constraints and limitations while growing up we behave in a certain manner.
I give you three examples below:
- A child growing up in poverty or deprivation is not going to talk about giving or contributing. Their life has been about survival throughout their life, which is embedded into their brain.
- A child growing up under domestic violence and where treatment of women is BAD. Will he grow up and believe in equality between males and females?
- How will a child gain confidence when constantly they have been bullied and looked down upon for their looks, and inability to perform well in school? When they grow up, they will only hide away from the world and feel miserable.