I have been the biggest cribber in my friend circle. I had a problem with everything: job, people, relationships.
Things have gotten better in a few years, I am more interested in my present. I don’t want to crib about what and how things or situations in my life should be. I have accepted the truth: there are limited things which I have control over.
I keep advising the same to my friends. You don’t like the current job, change it. Not happy in the current relationship, move on.
In short, the choice is yours, our life is too small and we have one life. What is the point of cribbing in every stage of it?