I am not saying leave your current job and switch to better pastures. I am definitely saying hedge and take chances.

Dislike relationship, move one.
Dislike job, switch.

Just don’t crib and sulk in your miseries. In the end, it is your short life, you are the master of your destiny. Also no one gives FUCK about you in the universe. Own it, hedge some bet. Crying, burning in anger will shorten your life.