There are multiple ways of seeing an issue. Sometimes those are not issues but improvement advice. It is too easy to get carried away and get on to the argument and screw up a friendship.
Our mind acts like a magic box and; how we react to a problem. The situation shows us the way forward.
Being open-minded and understanding the other side helps. Every adversity comes with ways to tackle it. We have to keep type one brain or monkey mind while handling it.