One thing I have learned is that: Love is a byproduct of tolerance
I know we are sold dreams by marketers about how love is magical and how it makes everything perfect.
It reminds me of Utopian love, which does not exist.
My limited knowledge suggests that love is about tolerating each other, accepting as they are. It’s a package full of everything good and bad parts of your partner.
Both sides should realise it early for a less painful journey ahead.