One of our mind’s negative manifest is mirroring.
We expect things to be as they were in a job, relationship, or life.
The reason is our laziness and comfort.
It adds a barrier to our life and affects our progress.
We start comparing our new companion with the old one.
We start comparing the previous job perk with the new one.
Our old habits and expectations get shocked if new work or relationship is different from the past.
We get frustrated and in tears.
As long as we continue mirroring the past in the present, we will make life miserable for newer folks, ourselves, and the newer management at work. In short, we won’t be satisfied.
Can we start our life with a fresh slate?
Can we join the new workforce expecting it to be day one?