I am halfway through “the body keeps its score.” It talks about the human mind and trauma. In one chapter author talks about how traumatic childhood results in making a monster as an adult. The negligence of parents resulting in physical torture and sexual abuse leaving a scar for life.
It takes a village to raise a child, a famous quote. We live in a fast pace & matchbox (apartments) in isolation makes it traumatic for the baby. When everyone is working and busy, the kid becomes a piece of furniture. They miss love and care for their emotional growth.
Your kid ends up growing immature and emotionally imbalanced and does more havoc on society. So be very careful before deciding to raise a child.
Your kid needs more than a babysitter, cartoon network, and YouTube ad-free on mobile. They need all your attention, love, comfort, and care.
Some of my friends are wise. They have adopted cats instead of having a kid because they know how impossible it will be for them to raise kids.