It is great to dream of having a good life, a satisfying job, a life partner, and loving friends around. Most humans strive for these things. In reality, very few achieve them. The reason is “missing commitment.”
The lever between success and failure in transforming a dream into reality requires commitment from the self. No one will come and feed you or hand-hold you in making your dreams into reality.
In short, your life is in your hands and requires a lot of commitment from you. A satisfying job comes with equipped tech know-how, a life partner comes when you both are committed together, and friends stay when you are there for them at all times: good or bad.