I am not sure if the narrative we have built is from our past experiences. It is our internal checklist. How will it play out in multiple scenarios or longer run in life can be a life changer.
We are taught to be open-minded and welcoming about various thoughts and ideas. As a human, we are built to act against it. Our past keeps coming to haunt us. It defines what is good or bad.
Time and again we have lost love, life, and wealth by missing out on opportunities because our narratives were against it.