We don’t take chances; we blame others for our failures. The small life we have is for doing something meaningful, not for playing the victim card. The ownership and responsibility of our lives depend on us. Most importantly, on our thoughts and actions.
If you ask a successful businessman, they will not list their failures to you, but what worked for them. They have wired differently: they find opportunity from adversity.
There is a small difference between success and failure. The successful ones make use of every chance life offers them. They are not cursing others.