We create confusion within ourselves. It can be our manifestation. It can be how we react to an event. We can complicate our lives or keep calm like a cucumber and lead it.
Life is not a binary or a zero-sum game. We live moment to moment in it. Some moments we make memorable and stick through our lives. We want to forget painful ones quickly.
It depends on us how to lead our lives. There are no shortcuts or easy way out. We have to work every moment to make our dream come true.