I was supposed to join a super-experienced mentor of mine for lunch. I could not reach on time, and the meeting got called off. It was painful and sad. It also made me realize how important time is and being punctual. Show up early is one virtue am striving for now.
Category Archives: Random Thoughts
dormant
How easy it is to live in anger like a dormant volcano. Does it help anyone? Be it a relationship or business: disagreements are part of it. Some of us keep grudges and make things worst for everyone. We start forming our own opinions and keep everything in a prejudiced bucket. Who does it help? …
plus 30
Once you cross 30 years of your age, you should start taking care of your health more. The body and metabolism are not the same. We are living in a hyper-connected world with a continuous flow of information. It affects us adversely. We are social animals which result in impulsive drinking or smoking. With the …
karma
Karma is a real thing.It will come back and hit you.Be nice, be good, and be honest. In the end, it is you and your consciousness. Your karma will come and bite you in one or the other ways. Your castles and money will not fill the void with all your bad karma. I am …
critique
We all crave love and respect. It is easy to get angry and give feedback point-blank to your subordinates. But is it the right approach? Can this take your team far in the journey of building the rocket ship? Why can we not make constructive criticism instead of pointing fingers? As a leader, you are …
Ingrained
A leader’s role is temporary but the organization lasts for decades. A successful leader creates an environment and trains and motivates their team so that teaching and learning continue even in their absence. You don’t want to be a control-free leader but create an environment where teaching philosophy has deeply ingrained within your organization. Whether …
community
Over seven years as a community manager and an evangelist my only job was to spend time with community contributors. The thing working for me has been treating contributors as human’s first code contribution or organizing events being secondary. The same goes for gifting swags, it came last. I still hang out with folks from …
progress
What is your definition of progress?Is becoming famous and rich a sign of progress? The more I see these days titles where the author talks about getting rich, famous, or finding a soulmate who falls for you. I start questioning consciousness. We and the world has become more prosperous than before. Our life expectancy has …
Validation
We live in a world where our survival depends on how others perceive us. The reason why beauty care, fashionwear, or social media thrives. The burden of validation impacts everyone. The person seeking validation and people in their circle. Sometimes I wonder which came first our ego or the craving for validation. Or is anger …
complex
Have we made our life complex with our needs, actions, and desires? We want love, we seek attention and we crave independence. As a result, we end up building a complex maze of wants. We end up being angry, depressed, and sad when desires are unmet. We get stressed, overwork, collapse and go down further …