identity

Why do I have to become someone? Why can’t I have my own identity? To be successful in life why do we have to aspire to be like someone else?
Why can’t we have life on our individuality? Who had everything figured in the mother’s womb?

Our identity should not be defined or built on imitating others, psychology talks about the individual difference for the same reason. I am not saying to be inspired by others, all I am saying is not to imitate or try to become others. Mentors have a place in our life, their virtues should be learned but they should not be embedded in us.

None of us are perfect. Accept it and make peace with it.

one thing

We are living in a world where everything is about maximizing. Be it productivity, wealth or happiness. We are so lost in this race that we end up sailing in many boats at the same time.

It does not hit us in the initial days of our journey as we self gloat about our products but as we progress we end up being a headless chicken.

Our human mind has limited resources, letting our mind wander is not a bad idea but focusing on one thing till the end is what makes us productive.

Free Thinkers

Running a small team of developers have made me realize that be successful as a team we all have to be a good thinker. We are so much stuck to pedigree, experience that we miss out on free-thinking and creativity.

The beauty of software development is that a solution can be made in many ways. Freethinkers result in solving a challenging task or building something from scratch in a much elegant way.

Always hire free thinkers over code monkeys or pedigree stickers.

boat

We are in a boat, sailing in the uncharted territory. The outcome is not in our hands, but that should not stop us from sailing. The same applies to our life, purpose, and aim. We have to keep pushing ourselves in attaining them, enjoy the journey and should not worry about the outcome.

My past has been all about running for the end goal without enjoying the journey.

bored

Why do we get into the zone of being bored? Is it because of our failed expectations or meaninglessness? Or is it because we are clueless about what now, what is next or not satisfied with the present?

I don’t know but I keep hearing from friends being bored at work or watching a movie or drinking. Seems like each one of us has our own boredom threshold. Or is it because we are yet not able to figure out who we are?

equality

I had fatigue every time I heard people talking about equality. Our country, culture is so divided and diverse that equality is a dream.

One thing which has more power over equality is education. It is a great equalizer. With proper education, we are capable of choosing life on our terms.

Most developed countries had education as an equalizer among its people.

The division on caste, race, religion, and region will only be one by/with education.

nature

Nature is what I have been missing from my life. I grew up enjoying summer holidays with my grandma, eating mangoes, guavas and other fruits from orchids, bathing in bore well pumps. Most of those are gone now. We have house

The village, the charm, and melas around Navaratri, the playful fun during Holi have all lost. I see the village mostly with old people and kids. The water streams are clogged with plastics and the joy of fishing during monsoon is gone.

While reading Ruskin Bond’s My tall green friends, I was in my memory lane with all the fun, freedom and idleness.

While the village has transformed with time, healthcare, electricity, and roads have gone better. I feel nature, flora, and fauna are getting drained.

satisfaction

The life we are currently in is like we are playing super Mario. To win imaginary levels we are running. We call it a goal, prestige, and power.
How much these mattered to us when we were kids? Were we not innocent and lived in now?

We are running for more and creating imaginary metrics for our success. How much in inner self needs it? At times our family, parents get backfoot for this. Is it really worth it?

Can we not live a life where we have enough time for us, family and loved ones? Why are we running like monkeys and chasing imaginary satisfaction in every step of our life?