reason

There is no particular reason to be unhappy.
We are breathing, all body parts are working, and we have a company of friends.
It is something that Epicureans talk about.

The more I see or observe I feel it is about having basic necessities.
Our need is limited.
Our wants can be infinite.

Our life on this planet is limited.
Look around the world we are living in.
There is more reason to be thankful.
We survived the pandemic.
We have our loved ones around.

Life is not easy, but looking for what we don’t have and living in regret or being thankful for what we have will define the attitude and reason to live. You have to decide.

peace

We have to seek peace within.
Our quest for wealth, popularity, and stardom has its side effect.
It is making us more like a machine.
We are doing everything for our peace after running like a headless chicken.

It is like eating antibiotics and then going to a doctor for more dosage.
We are over-feeding ourselves for peace with externalities like travel, reading, yoga, or whatnot.
We are empty, in pain not honest with ourselves. We have no clue to listen within and talk to ourselves.

How many hours do we spend without the internet, gadgets, or books? I mean, just being in our thoughts? Most of us are scared and cannot face ourselves and hence no peace.

guiding principle

People will come into our lives every now and then.
Some will try to torment us and our virtue.
We have to stick to our guiding principles instead of falling for their criticism.

Some will try to make hostage with their words, while others with their acts.
They will do emotional blackmail, drench us, and play the victim card.

We have to again think about our guiding principle and lead life.
Feeling sad, pitiful, or empathetic will do no good either. It will drag the ending. At the same time, it will go against our guiding principle.

slow

I remember elderly advice coming from all fronts:
Eat slowly
Talk slowly
Write slowly and many others advice. I would wonder what was wrong with them all.

As I grew up, the era was all about running fast. We were fed immediate gratification from food to relationships to sex, all on a single mobile tap. Slow ended up becoming a vice. We want everything quick and now.

All these years, startup founders got the same teachings. Fast is cool, but as money has dried up, slowing down is new cool.

Our life is limited, I understand, even then: we should live like a human, not a cyborg.

Slow down, breathe, listen to birds chirping, and observe the stars, the colors of plants around, and the trees. You are lucky, unlike those whom the pandemic killed.

competition

During our catchups or demos, some customers will list out our competitors. I would get uncomfortable.

As we progressed in building Taghash, we realized the only competition worth focusing on is: solving customers’ pain. Once we solve it, we get paid both monetarily and via word of mouth.

All these years of existence: we spent less than a lakh rupees on marketing or promotions. Almost 90% of our sales closed via our customers connecting to potential.

It makes me humble and gives me a reason to be out there as a customer support person first, than a founder.

desperate

We lose sales, and our relationship gets sour because of our desperation. We should realize that things in life take time.

When we become desperate, we end up becoming obsessed.
As a result, we forget to see things rationally.

Early days of building our company, I was so desperate for initial customers that I gave away products for free for a year.

I wasted 6-8 months seeking feedback from people who were not my actual customers. Even now, they will have advice for me but not money.

When you are desperate, you lower your value in the eye of others. Let things take their course. Do not rush, and don’t be desperate.

zindgi

ek mukaam pe log mil zate hai, zindgiyaan mil zati hai, mil zata hai jine ka asra aur ho zate hai zindgi ko jine ke liye agrsar.

kitne duvidha se likhe hai zindgi hamare, kuch pal kuch humsafar mil zate hai zindgi mae, dae zate hai sahara aur kuch khusi. Zindgi waise bi to chand pal ki mehmaan he hai. Hum hai kaun?

Ek musafir he to hai. Ziye za rahe hai ek masaal liye zindgi ka. Ek aadat se ho rakhi thi bhoot me simat zane ke, vartmaan aur bhavisya ka socha he na tha.

Hum chalte chalte ek waqt tham zate hai, phir kabr me simat zate hai. Hame waqt he nahi milta khud se ru-baru hone ka. Kuch chand musafir aur unke kadmo se mile kadmo me he to hum zi zate hai zindgi ko.

thoughts

Are we slaves to our thinking?
Do we act according to it?
What are these thoughts?
How or why it comes to us?
Is there a way to live the present moment of life without thoughts?

Our life is a sum of our past experiences, ego, and expectations. Our thoughts cement it. Every little thing we do, feel, and experience. They all become part of our thoughts.

We say monkey mind, but in reality, this reactive mind is a byproduct of our experiences, and we have developed thoughts about it.

We are all locked into this society where preachers and leaders dictate what is good or bad. The teaching defines good or bad. We get punished for disobeying. This upbringing results in growing up with thoughts of a kind.

Imagine growing up in a family of risk takers, hunters. What are virtue and vice for you? Is it not about feeding and staying alive?

smile

When we smile, it brings peace and joy. It’s our body’s hormones that come into play. It reduces our stress and pain. It brings an aura that makes the world around us pleasant. It’s like spreading the wings and making everyone around happy. I understand we live a stressful life. Thanks to the rat race and societal expectations. But this does not mean we should kill or hide from being ourselves. We are all living in pain. But these smiles are seeds of our mood. A smile makes us feel good and rejuvenates us.

https://twitter.com/koolhead17/status/1665365578171727875

kids

We are all little kids within. We like to be cajoled and cared for. Sadly the world we are living in, we are all busy. We have forgotten ourselves. As a result, we are running like zombies and never giving importance to the little baby inside us. The little us that wants to dance, play and act like a baby. But then society will dictate to us telling: you are an adult and act or behave like it.

As a result, we will kill that kid slowly and gradually. As a result, we will let go of the creative part that thinks out of the box.