resilience

Our life is not easy, but that does not mean we should give up easily or accept as things happen. Our actions and thoughts are the only things we have in our control. We, individuals, have got nothing else.  

The power of resilience comes in and shapes us. 

  1. Hope is the cornerstone of resilience.
  2. Taking the first step into the unknown, going against our fears.
  3. Optimism is an integral part of going through adversity.
  4. Being resourceful: making the best out of available resources and sailing through.
  5. Memory Loss: Leaving the past behind and Starting a new day. 
  6. Start and take one less step as you progress in life. 

umeed

Ummedo ki chadar tane sapno ko sakar karne, nikal chale hai is duniya mae hum, bekauff, madmasst apni chaal mae.

Hum beparwah hai auroo ke kehne sunne ka, hum apne zindgi ko naya mukaam apni mehnat se de rahe hai. Is koshis me ki kuch malaam na reh zaye kabr me zate zate.

Kuch hame pagal samajhe hai to kuch dusre duniya se aaya hua azooba. Par apne ko kya he farak padta hai auro ka jab khud ke sapno ko sakaar karne ke chaat bana li hai hamne.

Is duniya ke uper bhi ek dusre duniya hai. Ye duniya hum aur apke ander, apni mastishk me hai. Hum jo chale usko paa sakte hai agar mehnat aur viswaas ka ho saath.

battle

We lose or win a battle in our minds before fighting.
It is more about our way of seeing and observing the scenario and acting on it.
If we are not optimistic and confident, how are we going in the trenches with high morale and willingness to sacrifice for the cause?

People dying of regrets or losing a battle without putting up a fight suffer beyond the battlefield. Their loss gets innate to their everyday life and behavior.

Some people put up a fight or die trying.
Many others live another day without doing anything and dying within.

Fear

Fear is a disease for some and a power for others. Our civilization flourished because of the fearlessness of a few species.

Look around and see the pattern where successful people are also those who have taken risks and lived fearlessly.

Our life on this planet is limited. Living in fear about anything makes us only sick and weak. Our destiny is in our hands. It requires us to take action.

Imagine dying and crying in the grave for not taking action because we were fearful. Also, not living a life as anticipated because of fear.

Toxic

How can we get bitter all of a sudden over someone? Is it because of our ego or unmet expectations? Why do we have to control someone?

We are all unique, and so are our thoughts. How do we expect others to surrender to us as per their ways? Are we some domesticated animal?

I wonder how people live for ages together and die under the same roof but don’t see one another respectfully.

The advancement in society has thankfully made things better, and many sections of society have gotten better. Financial independence has improved the lives of many. But it is not enough.

CCC

In my limited learning, building an organization has three levers.

  1. Company: The first and foremost is the company itself. It is the founders, team, and principles with which the company exists. This lever defines or provides oxygen to the company. In most occasions, the company make or break because of it. 
  2. Customers: Build your company to solve customers’ pain and get paid in return. Your customers help you in product discovery and future customer outreach. It is them who will be your champions. Keep customers as closer.
  3. Competitors: The factor of competitors differs from business to business. So you have to identify your moat and execute it. In our journey, it has been solving customers’ pain and providing the best service as a moat against our competitors.

divide


Brits divided our country on religion, and then the rest is history. We have fought never-ending battles. We are witnessing the plague of division shaping in various forms across us in many forms.

99% of the human component is the same, aka DNA. Still, society has built its own ideology and divided us. Who gets to benefit from it?

The human race has survived for numerous years. It is nothing sort of a miracle because the divide has been increasing by leaps and bounds.

Confidence

I don’t know what has happened to us all. Why are we losing confidence in everything? While growing up in a tier 3 city, Our life was more peaceful and harmonious.

We were more confident in progress or self, country, and society. We had limited means.

As we grew up, we progressed and got on to the competition with the rest of the world in technological and financial advancement, and something happened. We got overworked and result oriented rather than enjoying the journey and being confident about the outcome.

The world or an individual has to rise from the ashes like a phoenix and build for himself. Living in a world without confidence is not an option.

sandook

Seepiyo mae Sanjo Rakhi hai zindagi ki yadoo ko kuch khatti aur kuch mithi.

Pal do pal hum kho jate hai khud me, aise waqt me chal padte hai sandook ki taraf aur nazar dalne lagte hai in seepiyo mae.

Hum zindagi to zite hue he fannah ho zate hai, chor jate hai chand Lamhe apno ke saath. Kuch lamhe jinme hum khud ke he reh zate hai aur kuch hame Rula dete hai.

Aap na chaah kar bhi inn yadoo ke karwat le he lete ho. Kya ye apki majboori hai ya jine ka jariya.

gumsuda

Raste ki khoj me gumsuda ho gaye hum khud se. Hum kaun the kya tha wazood mera uska pata nahi hame. Ek faquir ke mafik bhatak rahe hai duniya ke kone kone mae is aas liye ki mujhe mera muqaddar mil zaiga.

Hamne kya aas lagaye the, hamne aisa kya umeed saath thame rakha tha jo ab raah hamare khatam hote na dikhe. Adhe zindgi ko ji liya hai hamne, chale ja rahe hai, bekhauff, beparhaan. Ab to umeed me he zindgi ho jina ek maksad bana liya hai.

Ek faquir ki chaah bas ibadat he to hai. Ek musafir ka maksad rah pae chalna he to hai. Ham to chale za rahe hai, zindgi ko jiye ja rahe hai.

Hum gumsuda hai duniya se, hum gair hai auro ke liye. Ek khuda he to hai jiske ibadat mae bhatak rahe hai adhe zindgi liye. Maksad kya hai zindgi ko zindadili se jine ke alawa.