koolhead17
People and your company can make or break your life. We all radiate some energy from within the universe. Some spread warmth, cheerfulness, and calm. Some others spread anger, jealousy, negativity, and hate.
This energy and company shape us: monkey see, monkey do. We are the sum of our consciousness and experience.
What will you learn living with a herd of sheep will be different from a peck of wolves.
Your company defines and shapes your energy. Pick it well.
When we are attracted to something, We want to own it. Why is it so?
Why do we have to own or control things or people we like.
What do we have in our control other than our consciousness? Why do we have to buy everything or expect everything has a price?
With age, I am starting to like my freedom. It is a virtue and part of mine.
The way I see things revolving around and people with masks scares me.
One piece of advice I will give to my younger self is to be more fearless. Take more risks, venture more into the journey unimaginable and get out of comfort. It is humbling to see 18-20 years kids have figured out what they want.
When you are fearless, you have a world of opportunity that awaits. You will not care what others think about you or the reactions of others to your everyday decisions.
The concept of the internship was different in our times. Our seniors were more empathetic and were excellent guides.
These days I feel we have rewritten the definition of an internship. We are asking way too much from these kids: offering them money and expecting them to be more like full-time employees. It does not work like this.
The level of empathy and respect has deteriorated overall. It has become transactional. The fun of building and learning has diluted.
As a leader, if you are on-boarding interns, please be responsible for interns’ success along with the organisation. Treat them well and be a coach.
We, humans, are like onions. Every layer has its own story, and for an outsider, we are just projections of the version we portray. Nobody cares what is going on in your other aspects of life but wants to see more of you and your bikini pics or jokes on Twitter.
We are all lost in our world, and knowing someone or peeling off those layers is a time-taking activity that most are least interested in or bothered about.
One of the main reasons for modern-day relationship failure comes from this simple reason.
We want complete onion without peeling it all off, knowing each side of the dear ones.
There is a big bubble brewing in the financial market. The trillions of paper /currency US treasury minted are not helping. The stock market is at an all-time low.
I have been speaking to founders and investors off-late. Some predict a meltdown for the next few years.
I graduated in 2007, in a recession. India had less impact and risk from the global market then, and now we are more connected. It will impact us.
The wise advice is cost-cutting and staying frugal.
In a bootstrap dhanda, you are always in recession or cost-cutting mode. So a few who are running a business on deep fundamentals and addressing customers’ pain points should not be worried.
Capitalism has put trust in the back seat. Old days we had a family physician, butcher, or milkman. They cared for us, and we trusted them with their quality of service. With time we are merely limited to buying or consuming. There is a pure transaction at play.
We are just another face paying for the service. The service provider is busy making money. The trust factor is limited, and we have to be lucky to get quality service.
We are in the era of mass production for profitability, and trust has a limited role at work.
Kasme wade khaye the, haath pakad kar saath chalne ke liya. Kya hua kyun ho gaye anjan?
Hum ab kya galti ginne za rahe hai, hun kya gamo me ghut Zane Lage hai. Kya the, Kiya hua. Pyar ki kasme khate the, ab pyar se dur bhagte hai. Ek he duniya the kaise itne badal gaye.
Kya galti thi hamare ya waqt ka dose tha, kyun ban gaye hum ajnabi dekhte dekhte.
Hum apne Ishq ke kasme khaya karte the, hum se Ishq ki kahaniyan banti the. Ab hum kya kare bayan apni Datsun, kyun na mar zaye ghut ghut ke?
Zindgi abhi baki hai, ek zindagi he to hai. Khub hote hai yun mayuresh hum, kyun kho zate hai aise ham andhere me, kyun nai bitee hue un Palo me ji jate hai zindgi ko.
Kyun kisi ke aane Zane se zindagi aise badal zati hai hai hamare, kyu hum kar dete hai apni khusi auro ke hawala itne aasani se. Kya ye apne kasoor nai hai?
Kisko dhund rahe hai hum apni parchai me, kya chahiye hame khud sae?
Apne hue hum khud ke liye, apne hue hum apno ke liye phir bhi kya talaash hai hai jiske piche hai hum.
Kya hum gumm hai gumnami me khud se? Kaise sabkuch hote hue bhi bhatak rahe hai hum? Kiski talaash hai, kya talaash hai?
Kab tak hum zainge aise he, kab tak darte rahenge hum apni parchai se?
Kya milega wo muqaam, kya marte marte dhund paiynge us mazaar ko ziske talaash salo saal se hai.
Why do we have to let our happiness be dependent on someone else? Whose life are we living? Why is this dependency?
We are the sum of people around us and our thoughts apart from how we react to adversaries. Still, why do others matter so much?
The sooner we realize that life is painful and we have to sail through on its own, things will be more predictable in our control. It will hurt us less.