We all need help. Asking for help is not a sign of fear. Our life is not a self-help book. We should reap most from our circle of competence.
Asking for help is wise, it saves your time. You get expert in that specific domain telling you what and how about it.
Some of us read and fell for 10000 hours ritual, which made the author rich.
Why do we have to fake it and not seek help?
Is our ego so important?
What about the life of people and co-workers we are leading?
Are we not cheating on them?
Seeking help is not about ego depletion or guilt ride. It’s about holding the hand of a perfectionist and getting a job done.