In a relationship or relationship, both parties come with their baggage. Being aware of it makes the journey less painful. We are not perfect. We require unlearning and learning in long courtships.Many times disagreement emerges because of the baggage.
Category Archives: Random Thoughts
gateway
We are all busy with our daily life.The daily chores end up making our life hectic and stressful.Some of us pick hobbies like running, dancing, singing, etc.A few pick alcohol or drugs as an aid to forget reality or challenges in life temporarily. Our exit gateway should rejuvenate us to live our real life more …
priority
In a relationship or in business, priority takes precedence over emotions. Why will someone buy your product when they have no pain? Or why will someone buy your product when they have no money to pay? Why will someone get attached to you when they are not emotionally available and; when their constant struggle is …
monster
There is a monster within which keeps nudging. It gets harsh at times and makes us go mad. At other times it gives us all the peaceful melody. Our focus, concentration, and every habit get affected by this nudge, this sound, or the feeling. Have you tried locking in the room and sitting for a …
pick
It took me some time to realize the difference between a hot lead and a qualified lead or a waste of time. I have a software developer background and have picked sales and customer support roles in my hand. It helps me map customer pain and build a product. In limited marker size, being focused …
Expect
Bhagwad Gita says that expectation is evil & cause of all our misery. Epictetus talks about things in your control is your consciousness. We are living in a society trapped with materialistic needs and making everyone happy around us. Marriage and relationships with loved ones have turned into a transaction. We have gone into undefined …
child
I am halfway through “the body keeps its score.” It talks about the human mind and trauma. In one chapter author talks about how traumatic childhood results in making a monster as an adult. The negligence of parents resulting in physical torture and sexual abuse leaving a scar for life. It takes a village to …
Hype
I have been seeing CVs of freshers for the last 5-6 years for hiring at our firm. I consistently see a trend of hype element in it. I am not sure if it is the student, college, or faculty who drives this. From blockchain to crypto to AI/ML to DevOps, whatever is hot in the …
burn
One part of my brain cannot comprehend seeing P&L and cash flow-related stories of popular startups news like Meesho, Fi, Snapdeal and dozen others. Like their cash burn, why these companies exist, or if a bot had replaced the founders, companies might have burnt less cash. But the other side speaks another story. The reason …
Victim
You have to get over the victim mindset. You have to stop blaming others for your failures. You and feeling that will make you move and take steps forward. No one can teach you how to be happy. You have to have your rules and habits to get into happiness. Lastly, get over the status …