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I keep hearing what it takes to run a startup. Reading the success of oldies like Walmart, Berkshire Hathaway and, a dozen others makes me realize: there is no secret sauce. There was a problem to be solved and, the founders worked hard to solve it. They were opinionated, visionary. Nobody asked for a car from Henry Ford; nobody asked for an electric bulb from Edison. And everyone made fun of Wrights’ brothers’ crazy dream of flying like a bird. Japan emerged into an Industrial hub after the war. It was perseverance and hard work that played along with government policies.

I always remember AB‘s advice a few years back: Companies die when founders give up also Jeff Bezos’s famous quote: it is always day zero.

The world of startups we are living in now celebrates fundraising and building in public. A very few know what goes behind the social network.

I was going through these tweets and, it made me write today’s post.

job

In a democratic society, we have all have our roles to play. Media is considered a pillar of democracy. When it comes to startup, the same rule applies. We should public, discuss talk about all aspects of building a company. As a media, one should cheer for the success of the ecosystem and at the same time present the facts. A founder accepts all reporting, good or bad, with hard-hitting facts.

Amazon, Tesla, or Walmart, and others took a lot of sweat and hard work. They were not an overnight success. Their founders had dreams, and they went against the default. It is like sailing to uncharted territory. It is not easy; it is day zero every day.

We are all working in this ecosystem to see success overall. We should accept and encourage it.

deception

We are living in a world where deception sells. It is not limited to relationships, humans. Our consumerism era thrives in disguise and deception.

I was at a grocery store, and this is what happened.



Another evening in the name of security, HotStar was harvesting the phone numbers of Indian users.

A friend of mine who thought he is caffeine-free was sipping glasses and glasses of green tea. (yes, green tea has caffeine)

We heal ourselves with time when it comes to relationships. In the case of consumerism, we get deeper inside the rabbit hole.

We have to be more aware of our choices; else, we will keep screwing ourselves.

Badi ma

Kids call her Badi maa; she is in her nineties. She had long white hair like a snow-covered mountain. She has been active, all senses in control. On top of this, she would cook daal roti for herself and consume it twice. Sometimes one of the son’s wife would get her some milk. Badi maa liked her independence, so she divided all her wealth, house to her kids and lived all by herself.

People who did not like her would call her Dayan budhiya. Mukesh, the sweeper boy, says Badi ma is a blood-sucking witch. My head hurts over six years old’s imagination. Many others in the village blamed her for many misdeeds and ill luck.

The granddaughter, Radha, says she is unmarried because of Badi maa, who will do her sewa once he is gone to her husband’s place.

Badi maa is big on bidi and paan. Her price possession, silver case finds a place in her sari’s pallu. It has some bidi, paan, chuna, and katha. My mother told me I should avoid eating anything Badi maa had to offer. Another evening she gave me a laung to chew; I kept it in my pocket till I was there and then threw it in nala.

Muniya, the cook’s daughter, says she made many boys mute just with a little gaze at them. At one wedding entire baraat ended up on a puking trail and got sick. People say it happened because Badi Ma was uninvited.

The village oldies join at piple tree during summers and play cards, sip chai. Their version says Badi ma killed her husband to learn witchcraft. And others, she is so old and active because she is a witch. She feasts on blood and what other nonsense. Other stories like Badi ma travels on a tree to many other countries. She needs no bus, train, or airplane.

I asked my mom this time about Badi Ma, and she went silent. On further inquiry, she whispered: Badi ma gayab ho gaye. Nobody knows where she went.

Is she alive, turned ghost, or became the witchcraft leader? I could not imagine while trying to catch up over my sleep.

founders

It is easy to give advice to a founder or criticize them when things go south. As long as he/she takes care of stakeholders’ interests, everything acts as a utopia.

As an employee, consultant, investor, or press, it is easy to get annoyed over the founder’s action. I am not saying all founders are perfect.

As a funded or bootstrap or side project journey, founders have their challenges. Media shows half-truth. Founders get laughed at their ideas by folks who have no skin in the game. Early believers, teammates move on low notes. Personal life and time get submerged into work.

Most successful founders are bitter not by choice but because of the shit they went through the journey. An entrepreneur’s life is not Page3; one has to live and die every moment of it, and it is not for a weak heart or those who give up easily.

control

Leadership is not about control or being right. It is about having beliefs and allowing peers to work independently. It will energize a team to go at any length and succeed.

I am seeing a trend where leadership has ended up in micro-managing peers. Being always right has taken over working together. It also means picking the right people and grooming them. Not always they succeed but, this is the best path.

I am at receiving end sometimes, where friends will crib how bad companies culture is. They are staying only for money.

Does that mean as a leader, one can throw money at anyone and have them as your slave? Does that mean that the style of leadership also changes with wealth?

Village

The next wave of India’s technological development is poised to happen in tier 3-4 cities. The infrastructure has gotten better and, most importantly, the connection among founders, team.

People who go to IIT/IIM talks about networking. Imagine half a dozen school friends ending up building small Micro-SaaS, apps development, software testing, and turning entrepreneur eating, playing at same grounds and fields.

The internet is a treasure trove with loads of knowledgeable tutorials, videos, and classes (MOOC). Anyone can become anything as long as they are dedicating enough time to it.

I have been very vocal about the emergence of cities like Kanpur, Lucknow, Guwahati, Surat, Bhopal, Madurai, and a few as the next tech hub on a world map.

Umeed

Ek umeed laga baithe the ankho ke age, jine ko tay kar liya tha ek maksad ke saath. Socha tha abb zindgi chal padege, mann chahcha uthega aur pholo ke khusbo me san zaige mukaan hamari.

Hame kya pata tha ki umeed hame bas khud se karna chahiye, auroo ke saath maksad kabhi bhi badal sakte hai. Apke umeed auroo ki na-umeede ho zaige.

chowkidaar

Ram Singh, aka Ramu Bhaiya, was in his late 30’s. A hanuman devotee with chandan smeared on his forehead. His haircut was a signature army cut with a mustache reminded me of Ravan from the famous Ramayana serial telecasted on Doordarshan. He ran away from his family in Nepal for a job and life in our hometown.

It was the year 1990, and we were still living in the pre-modernization era. Ramu Bhaiya had a torch, khukri, and a well-oiled danda(stick). At first, when he walked to the mohalla(society) head, he was cynical about the proposal of a night watchman. After all, how can anyone trust a stranger? Our mohalla was sparsely populated and, most were moving from village to district for a better life and kids’ education. Some were teachers, bankers but most state government employee. Many of us were not comfortable paying him money for the service, and we offered grains for his service.

Most of us would retire by 10 pm and, that is when Ramu bhaiya would begin his duty. A loud whistle, thud on the ground with his danda followed with loud shouts: Jagte Raho(stay awake). Much old age and early risers later requested him not to shout: Jagte Raho. Their sleep was getting affected.

After six months of his diligent service, sometimes in October, he mentioned to the society head about the regular death threats. Some miscreants and thieves were stone-pelting and giving him death threats. He did not take them seriously but, we reported it to the police.

In November, most of the mohalla gets deserted, school winter break plus chatt puja, and most active time for thieves. We had Ramu Bhaiya this time around. My father told me about the death of Ramu Bhaiya when for weeks I heard no thud or whistle at night after returning from Gaon(village). Some miscreants strangled him to death. His corpse stayed for a day, waiting for relatives to show up. It was local thana(police) subedar Sahab who did the last rites for poor Ramu Bhaiya. There were no witnesses and, the case was closed.

After two months, a foggy day, a lady and a boy of my age knocked on our door. Mother opened the door, the lady introduced herself as the wife of deceased chowkidar(watchman) and produced a marriage photograph as proof. Her eye, hair, and looks witnessed her misery. She has been living with her parents immediately after marriage. Her father had not paid a promised dowry money to Ramu Bhaiya’s father. It was this reason why he ran away and came to work in India. His goal was to pay money to his father and bring back his wife and son. My mom hugged, cried, and fed them. She also gave her some money and used woolen sweaters, shawls. She was not wearing any chappal(slipper), so mom gave her one of hers.

That was the end of Ramu Bhaiya. A faceless population in our country, carrying so much burden for their end meets and union. Who cares for a poverty-stricken person’s death investigation in our country.

Desh

Desh ka kya hai ji, chalta he rahega.
Achai, Burai, Aamir, Garib sab isme he simte hai.
Hota ye hai ki bas numainde aur siyasatdar badalte rehte hai.

Garib ke phatehaal ko kaun dekhta hai Ji, isme koi chuski ya mazza thore he hai. Kisan jiye ya mare, hai to wo khud pe he.

Nikal zaye kuch kos chakachaundh se, dikhege apko wahi duniya: zahan ek baap lachar hai bete ke biyah ko, ek beta lad raha hai baap ke bimari ke uper aur nanhe se jaan paida hote he lagg gaye hai kolhu me kamane aur parivar ko palne.

Gaon ke sahukaar bann ke bicholiye intzaar kar rahe hai gandi ankho se apke khet ko harape ne liye.

Apki biwi, bete aur bacho ke khwaish ko kaun dekhta hai jab har waqt, be waqt jine ke mohtaaz hai hum. Khwab aur rubab dono amiro ki he gulaam hai ji bas.

Desh apke khun ka payasa hai aur desh ke numainde apke chamri ke.
Desh hai chal he zaiga, bas log zite marte rahenge.