Confidence

I don’t know what has happened to us all. Why are we losing confidence in everything? While growing up in a tier 3 city, Our life was more peaceful and harmonious.

We were more confident in progress or self, country, and society. We had limited means.

As we grew up, we progressed and got on to the competition with the rest of the world in technological and financial advancement, and something happened. We got overworked and result oriented rather than enjoying the journey and being confident about the outcome.

The world or an individual has to rise from the ashes like a phoenix and build for himself. Living in a world without confidence is not an option.

sandook

Seepiyo mae Sanjo Rakhi hai zindagi ki yadoo ko kuch khatti aur kuch mithi.

Pal do pal hum kho jate hai khud me, aise waqt me chal padte hai sandook ki taraf aur nazar dalne lagte hai in seepiyo mae.

Hum zindagi to zite hue he fannah ho zate hai, chor jate hai chand Lamhe apno ke saath. Kuch lamhe jinme hum khud ke he reh zate hai aur kuch hame Rula dete hai.

Aap na chaah kar bhi inn yadoo ke karwat le he lete ho. Kya ye apki majboori hai ya jine ka jariya.

gumsuda

Raste ki khoj me gumsuda ho gaye hum khud se. Hum kaun the kya tha wazood mera uska pata nahi hame. Ek faquir ke mafik bhatak rahe hai duniya ke kone kone mae is aas liye ki mujhe mera muqaddar mil zaiga.

Hamne kya aas lagaye the, hamne aisa kya umeed saath thame rakha tha jo ab raah hamare khatam hote na dikhe. Adhe zindgi ko ji liya hai hamne, chale ja rahe hai, bekhauff, beparhaan. Ab to umeed me he zindgi ho jina ek maksad bana liya hai.

Ek faquir ki chaah bas ibadat he to hai. Ek musafir ka maksad rah pae chalna he to hai. Ham to chale za rahe hai, zindgi ko jiye ja rahe hai.

Hum gumsuda hai duniya se, hum gair hai auro ke liye. Ek khuda he to hai jiske ibadat mae bhatak rahe hai adhe zindgi liye. Maksad kya hai zindgi ko zindadili se jine ke alawa.

Tanhai

Apni tanhai liye bhatak rahe hai hum. Apni zindgi ki kahane kise sunaye hum. Is chakachaud mae sab gum hai, is bhagdaur me sab bhatak gaye hai. Hai kya kisi kae paas hamare kahane sunne ka waqt, hai kya kisi ke paas zindgi jine ka maksad. Sab bhag rahe hai, pata nahi kiske talaash mae.

Kya he kar lenge daulat aur sohrat ke saath jab us upaarjan ka bhog he na kar paye. Bhag bhag ke bimar ho rahi hai duniya sare. Is awaal hone ke daud me sabne khud ko kho diya hai. Ek bhed chaal hai, sab ek zaise he namunee dikhte hai.

Kya banaya tha khuda nae, kya umeede the insaniyaat ki. Ab to jahanuum aur is zindgi ka saath ek zaisa he lagta hai.

Manzil

Humne banaya hai khud se rasta. Hum chal rahe hai apne manzil par, pal har pal. Kuch karne ka jasba hai aur kuch kar gujarne ki khwis hai.

Hum yuhi nai pal bhar me maksad bana lete hai. Hum yuhi pal bhar me nai manzil paa lete hai. Dhire dhire adig and agrassar hue chalte chalte jate hai. Tab za kar hum apni manjil ko hasil kar pate hai.

Apne zindgi ke kuch chand palo ko kaise koi ji sakta hai be maksad. Apne zindgi ke kuch chand palo ko kaise ji sakta hoke auro pe nirbhar.

Hum hai khud se bane, hosla hai, himmat hai. Khud se he rasta bana liya hai to manzil bhi mil he zaige.

believer

We are living in a world that trumps individualism above all. We are all on our own. But in this lost world of being all by itself, finding believers makes life less painful. We have all become self-centered, and “ME” gets importance over others.

How many friends and well-wishers do you have around whose shoulders you can cry? How many will accept you without societal lipstick or a bumper sticker? My guess is parents and siblings and a few others. Not even your partners in many instances.

Get out of your comfort zone, help, and make honest contributions. If you are lucky you will end up believers who will outlast or vice versa.

control

We have a few things in our control: consciousness, virtue, and how we react in a particular situation.

Our life is a mixed bag with happiness and pain combined. In our personal and professional life, we meet people. Some stay for life, and some leave. We don’t have control over it. But what we have control over is what we don’t want. And as a result, we avoid suffering. Times like these remind us about our virtues and remember it is okay to stick to your ideology even if it hurts temporarily but leads to a closer for the future.

We cannot let anyone run over us or treat us as their slave. I see stories in both corporate and professional life, situations like these happening. It is we who need to take control and sort it out. We don’t have to torment over the actions of others, be it their ego or narcissism.

Frugality

The virtue of frugality stayed with us most Indians since the early days. As the country progressed and we prospered. With prosperity came a splurge, and we ended up living in debt. What used to be luxury ended up becoming needs. Our desire and need started increasing.

The same applies to entrepreneurship. The luxury of the past is now part of our needs. We have become big risk taker. In the course, we have forgotten frugality.

Our short-term milestone is making us go mad. We are spending for growth like no tomorrow.

Solitude

Are you at peace with yourself? Can you sit idle for a few hours doing nothing? Can you live with your thoughts?

Man is a social animal. We live in a community surrounding other humans. We are part of the system, and we call it society. It has norms that everyone has to abide by.

We are not trained since inception to live with ourselves and our thoughts, and few who tried became hermits or monks. They are not sane in the societal system.

As a result, solitude is not part of us, but running like a machine to earn, the breed is.

doer

Society loves doers. Most of the doers are happy staying away from the glitters and media. The new age world we are living in has become more about posturing than doing. It is like we have to make others imagine the possibilities. Most of the time, it remains just on paper.

What and where would you like to fall: a doer or a posturer? You can sail through initially preaching the possibilities. In the end, you will also need to do things. You will. have to be a doer.

All talk and no work will make you disliked in the long run.