We can’t fix anyone, especially who are happy living in their default. We feel like we are helping them, but the reality is that they don’t need us. We are more of a distraction in their troubled life and increases their trauma. Time is a healer and rest all depends on self. Nobody can fix …
Category Archives: Life
commitment
We are a generation suffering from commitment phobia in all corners of our life. At work, it’s about what others offer with a package or role. The divergence between need and want is very evident. We saw the mass resignation episode during COVID witnessing the same. While we want all the money and independence, we …
Nothing
Doing nothing in itself is an experiment in itself.Can you sit idle for a few hours doing nothing?With enough money in your account, can you quit your job for a few months doing nothing? All our lifetime, we crave idleness. When we get the opportunity, we don’t cease it. Most of the masterpiece in arts, …
baggage
In a relationship or relationship, both parties come with their baggage. Being aware of it makes the journey less painful. We are not perfect. We require unlearning and learning in long courtships.Many times disagreement emerges because of the baggage.
priority
In a relationship or in business, priority takes precedence over emotions. Why will someone buy your product when they have no pain? Or why will someone buy your product when they have no money to pay? Why will someone get attached to you when they are not emotionally available and; when their constant struggle is …
Victim
You have to get over the victim mindset. You have to stop blaming others for your failures. You and feeling that will make you move and take steps forward. No one can teach you how to be happy. You have to have your rules and habits to get into happiness. Lastly, get over the status …
regret
Want to live a sane life or die in peace: one way to do this is to avoid regrets. Don’t let your past decisions come and haunt you. Do what it takes now. Don’t leave things unfinished for the future. Our thoughts appear like recorded cassettes of a tape recorder, and memory will keep appearing. …
Optimism
Optimism is a way of life, like a virtue.We have the option to live like a scared lamb, worried and pessimist about everything, or live like a radical optimist. The world is falling apart.Our media keeps reminding us how miserable the world is.We can keep living in fear or worry. There is another breed of …
Projection
We are a projection of our thoughts and consciousness in philosopher’s terms. I think there should be a revamp in the definition. We have become a projection of whatever gives us attention. We are no more living with consciousness. Our thoughts are dead, and we are lab rats of technology.
nice
What is the price we pay for being nice all the time? Why do we let others take credit for our work? Is it because we are too nice to fight for ourselves or scared of losing company? Do people take us for a ride because we are too nice? Is there not a thin …