Why do we need alcohol to open up? I was with friends last evening and, one of the things they were complaining that I have so much to hide as I am not drunk. I assured that I am always naked with or without alcohol. Those who are closer to me know when being fucked …
Category Archives: Random Thoughts
creative
Indians are not creative. They under-utilize the creative brain. Are we Indians not creative. Or is it because we are a developing economy and we have to work harder than our counterparts from the developed world for end meets? When our basic necessity is not with us, how will we think or be creative? When …
weakness
Be strong; do not show your weakness. But why? Why can’t we be vulnerable? Why do we have to talk to a faceless therapist about what is fucking us up from inside? We have lived in a close-knit since eternity, what happened to us now? We got all it takes to make: wealth, social status, …
spoonfeed
Is it our culture, education system, or society that craves newcomers for being spoonfed or micromanaged? In my limited experience, I have seen most dislike in figuring out things: be it with life decisions, education, skill acquisition, or work. I have been interviewing candidates for various roles in the last few months, and most of …
right
A leader’s job is not to be right. Their job is to ensure an organization is working together as an operating system. They have to ensure that the team is motivated and aware of overall milestones and companies vision. It is the team and togetherness which guarantees any organization’s success. The cult leadership creates a …
past
How much our past matters? I was going through photograph dumps, notes, scribbles. We change with time; Our priority, People, and the journey keep moving. I am barely in touch with my school and college friends. I am hardly in touch with folks from my first job. At the same time, I have noticed our …
Daughter
Patriarchy is part and parcel of Indian society. As a son, we have more authority, freedom. Although we are getting better, we are still far away. The priority of dream, aspirations, independence of daughter still takes backfoot over son. The choice of finding a partner, job, city to live in, who to meet, and when …
say
A few people never say No. The reason might be love, respect, or don’t want others to get sad. Some do not want to close the connection or relationship. It has more negatives than positives. The person is still expecting that something will come in his favor when the reality is a clear NO.
example
What you do will be learning for your kids. The way you act, behave and treat them and people around you. Sayings like: monkey see monkey do or charity begins at home exists for these reasons. As a parent, your virtues and vice will leave an impact on your kids, so be very aware of …
decision
When you have decided to take a particular decision, you are in a man with a hammer syndrome. You will find all reason to nail blame. Our life is too short; everyone is connected via the 6th degree of separation. This attitude does more harm to ourselves than others. Our rationality goes for a toss. …