koolhead17
We can’t fix anyone, especially who are happy living in their default. We feel like we are helping them, but the reality is that they don’t need us. We are more of a distraction in their troubled life and increases their trauma.
Time is a healer and rest all depends on self. Nobody can fix anybody unless they are willing to take external help. I have witnessed half a dozen such incidents in the last few months.
We live in a world divided into various dimensions: country, boundaries, colors, other cultures, and demographics. Can we get away from it and live as one world? What could be the reason for this not happening? Is it this divide that has kept civilization going?
We are a generation suffering from commitment phobia in all corners of our life. At work, it’s about what others offer with a package or role. The divergence between need and want is very evident. We saw the mass resignation episode during COVID witnessing the same. While we want all the money and independence, we are not committing to sticking long and growing with the organization. We end up thinking about what more others can offer or dampen ourselves with monotony at work.
In a relationship, we chase the never-ending wants of the best set with power, paisa(money), and pyar(love). It is like one part of our brain keeps reminding us don’t fall into a relationship because the better one is waiting on the next tinder/bumble swipe.
For some, the brain suggests how ending up in a relationship will take away all the freedom, and the other half’s dependency on love, care, and attention will be a distraction. It will hinder personal growth and kill individuality.
We all have our breaking point: a point or limitations where we give up. We need to know our limits. It will ensure us not get exploited by others.
This world around us has all kinds of people: some opportunists or others waiting to extort our emotions. Most others are ordinary humans like the rest of us, busy making end meets.
Doing nothing in itself is an experiment in itself.
Can you sit idle for a few hours doing nothing?
With enough money in your account, can you quit your job for a few months doing nothing?
All our lifetime, we crave idleness. When we get the opportunity, we don’t cease it.
Most of the masterpiece in arts, music, and literature is the result of doing nothing. It is this absolute idleness where the mind works its best.
In a relationship or relationship, both parties come with their baggage. Being aware of it makes the journey less painful.
We are not perfect. We require unlearning and learning in long courtships.
Many times disagreement emerges because of the baggage.
We are all busy with our daily life.
The daily chores end up making our life hectic and stressful.
Some of us pick hobbies like running, dancing, singing, etc.
A few pick alcohol or drugs as an aid to forget reality or challenges in life temporarily.
Our exit gateway should rejuvenate us to live our real life more ferociously. Pick your gateway wisely.
In a relationship or in business, priority takes precedence over emotions. Why will someone buy your product when they have no pain? Or why will someone buy your product when they have no money to pay?
Why will someone get attached to you when they are not emotionally available and; when their constant struggle is everyday survival?
We see the world with our lens and perimeter instead every stakeholder.
There is a monster within which keeps nudging. It gets harsh at times and makes us go mad. At other times it gives us all the peaceful melody.
Our focus, concentration, and every habit get affected by this nudge, this sound, or the feeling.
Have you tried locking in the room and sitting for a few hours without doing anything, free from all distractions?
Try doing it, and you will get to meet that monster.
It took me some time to realize the difference between a hot lead and a qualified lead or a waste of time. I have a software developer background and have picked sales and customer support roles in my hand. It helps me map customer pain and build a product.
In limited marker size, being focused and serving believers helps. The default wisdom of mass mailing or advertisement does not work.
In the noisy and glamorous world of unicorns and fundraising, solving customer pain and delighting them gets missed.
You have to pick your field and ace accordingly.